If you're unfamiliar with the legendary DawnCheré Wilkerson, consider the content of this article an early Christmas present with a big red bow tied neatly on top. DawnCheré is arguably the most distinguished, publicized, and influential pastor's wife of our generation. The petite blonde is married to Rich Wilkerson Jr, the acclaimed, noteworthy author and prodigious preacher of Vous Church in Miami, monumentalized for performing the marriage ceremony between Kim Kardashian and Kanye West.
DawnCheré and Rich are an obvious power couple - from their reality show on Oxygen, Rich in Faith, to their countless appearances, interviews, and ministry outreaches. It's no wonder the duo are so recognized by the Christian ( and non-Christian ) community: they live life ( dare I say? ) just like Jesus would live it if He were here today. The couple have placed their lives on the throne of God's Kingdom, ready and willing to walk wherever they're guided. Consequently, God led them straight into the public eye. And boy, have they thrived.
With open hearts to serve and a zeal to love, the famous pair have set the benchmark high for young Christian couples. Their lives acutely exude the notion that loving Jesus is not lame. Rather, it is a rollercoaster of internal wealth, peace, joy, and Heavenly treasure.
Milk & Honey Magazine was VERY, very ( very? ) excited to interview the role model of thousands of young women - DawnCheré Wilkerson.
My favorite book is probably Proverbs because it holds a special significance in my life. Since I was a little girl, my Mom would have us read the corresponding chapter with the day's date. It always holds a special place in my heart and no matter how many times I read the wisdom it holds, it challenges me deeply.
I think marriage is about being flexible and enjoying the journey. We don't have rigid rules for date times; however, it is a huge priority. We can make a date night out of watching a movie at the house with take-out food, or by getting dressed up and enjoying a nice dinner. Either way, we are together - that is the point! Rich has been my best friend since I was 17, so to be honest, there's no one I would rather hang with. Life gets crazy at times with travel, but it's just a season; there is rest all throughout it if you find the moments and make the most of them!
Continue to work on your craft. Learn, work hard, and enjoy! My Dad always told me my 20's are for preparation. I think people often feel they have to have everything figured out by the time they graduate from college. But the truth is that most of us don't have a clue! So breathe, don't be ruled by fear and continue to grow - focus on living a life of excellence and God brings the acceleration.
Don't get caught up in looking. I really believe that men should do the pursuing. There is nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who is confident in herself. That goes for every season of life, even after you get married. Know that you are valuable. Take care of yourself, create a healthy lifestyle and nurture healthy relationships. As you are responsible with what God has put in your hand, you can trust his timing for bringing Mr. Right along as well.
Well, I think some of the most beautiful moments are not huge mountaintop experiences, but rather the daily small whispers of encouragement and love. Provers 11:25 says those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed and I have found this to be an incredible promise in my life! God moments can be the kindness of the stranger, a quite moment with your coffee cup and Bible, or even a beautiful unexpected conversation with a loved one. As we open our eyes to the people around us and decide to love others, it brings so much peace and fulfillment.
Get outside the doors of church and love people who don't know Jesus! That will keep you away from getting complacent really quick! I find that having real, meaningful relationships with people who do not know Jesus changes my view of Sunday completely. When you have invited someone to church for the first time, you realize the importance of carrying a spirit of excellence and conveying the gospel each week in a way that allows people to understand the message of the Gospel clearly. It's important for us, as Christ followers, to not look at people like projects. There is no start and end date as long as someone is breathing. If God has not given up on them, neither should you. Keep loving, serving, and seeking to bring hope to people around you! You will be filled with a new sense of Gods grace and gratitude for the love you have found!