Relationships
Jezebel vs. Abigail: When Taking Charge Is Godly (and When It’s Not)
There’s a tension every Christian woman has likely felt at some point—especially in marriage or leadership: Is it okay to take charge? To speak up? To act boldly?
In a world that often gives us two extremes—either a passive “go-with-the-flow” kind of woman or a domineering “my way or the highway” one—it can feel like there’s no biblical middle ground.
But Scripture actually gives us two striking examples of women who did take charge. Both were married. Both acted in moments of crisis. Both spoke boldly to powerful men.
NYC Dating Tips: What a Relationship Expert Looks For on a First Date
Living in New York City, I will be the first to admit I’ve agreed to dates solely because I was blinded by a man’s height or his cute accent. Unfortunately, that has come back to bite me three dates later when I realize I’m at dinner sitting across the table from a man I have nothing in common with.
I may have had to learn the hard way one or two or maybe ten times, but it’s made me the well-seasoned dater I am. I know what I want in a man and I definitely know what I don’t want.
How To Be Single With A Single Focus on God
“Therefore, do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” - Matthew 6:34
If you're anything like me, you've probably thought (from time to time) “why am I still single?” or “man, it would be nice to be married.” In that case, you are not alone! Being single can be hard, yes, but let me serve as a beacon of hope for you that it's also incredibly rewarding!
75 Questions Before Marrying
“So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me… everyday.” - Nicholas Sparks
Marriage is beautiful, and the Bible shares just how beautiful a Godly marriage can be. However, the quote above is accurate – it will be hard. There will be rough patches, and life will happen.
COVID Wedding Planning
Brides-To-Be: My wedding went off as scheduled, the first time around. I am not going to pretend to understand or know how heart-wrenching it must be to spend so much time and money planning the perfect wedding, just for a pandemic to rip apart those plans and undermine all of that hard work. What I can say is during my wedding planning process, my husband reminded me what the essential part of a marriage was – how it's a commitment that does not change, no matter the circumstances.
God Doesn't Owe Me a Spouse
Ah, Christian Mingle, you thought you were so clever, targeting your Facebook ad to a 20-something woman who has posted about her faith on social media.
The Dating Challenge
I have been married to the love of my life for almost four years; years that have flown. And I am happy to say, relationship-wise, the good largely outweighed the bad. Here's our secret: we never stopped dating, even into marriage.
Sure, there were times we derailed and our weekly date night would get pushed around like it wasn't important. But when that happened, we could see a negative vibe slowly forming in our relationship.
A Love Letter Life
More than 2.3 million people watched Jeremy and Audrey Roloff get married on TLC’s hit show “Little People, Big World,” and their love story has captivated countless audiences ever since.
25 Love Language Gifts For Your Man
Can y’all believe Christmas is just a few days away?! Like, seriously, where did December go? In the midst of all the craziness, I realized the other day I still had no idea what to buy my husband this year. (GASP!) I usually spend weeks browsing Pinterest and thinking of fun, creative gifts, but this year, I’ve been so busy that shopping has honestly been the last thing on my mind.
To Fall In Love With Anyone, Do This...
Over twenty years ago, psychologist Arthur Aron successfully made two complete strangers fall in love in an afternoon. How? He had them ask each other the questions below and then stare into each other's eyes for four minutes.
Yep, we're serious.