To my fellow single sisters, do you have a case of the winter blues? As we transition from fall to winter, some of us begin to grow as bitter as the frigid winter air. Fortunately for you, I have your solution. All you need is a perspective as fresh as falling snow…and maybe some Vitamin D.  Although winter brings frost bite, alternate side parking, and an increased utility bill, it also brings twinkle lights, the best shopping deals of the year, and Michael Bublé songs on the radio. Our stubbornness and negativity, often times, hinder us from enjoying the season.

There are too many great guys out there to settle for a manipulative jerk... or even to settle for someone who isn’t a loser, but is just filling up a spot until you meet the right guy. That’s not fair to anyone, especially the nice guy who thinks you like him when you really don’t. Wondering if you need to head for the hills? If the following descriptions remind you of your relationship, it might not be a relationship worth having.

Author, blogger, photographer, and wife, Jordan Life is one of those girls you want to kidnap for an afternoon of steamy coffee and soul-bearing conversations. Her online platform - Soul Scripts - allows you to do just that (virtually, of course). The blog encourages women to pursue their faith over all else, and Jordan walks the walk and talks the talk, having waited on her Mr. Right.

We want a second coffee cup in our Instagrams of lazy Saturday mornings, another pair of shoes in our artsy pictures of our feet. We want a Facebook official relationship every one can like and comment on, we want the social media post that wins #relationshipgoals. We want a date for Sunday morning brunch, someone to commiserate with during the drudge of Mondaze, a Taco Tuesday partner, someone to text us good morning on Wednesday. We want a plus one for all the weddings we keep getting invited to (how did they do it?