NYC Dating Tips: What a Relationship Expert Looks For on a First Date

Living in New York City, I will be the first to admit I’ve agreed to dates solely because I was blinded by a man’s height or his cute accent. Unfortunately, that has come back to bite me three dates later when I realize I’m at dinner sitting across the table from a man I have nothing in common with.

I may have had to learn the hard way one or two or maybe ten times, but it’s made me the well-seasoned dater I am. I know what I want in a man and I definitely know what I don’t want.

Everyone has their own things they look out for when it comes to dating, but here are just a few of mine to share with you.

Where did he choose the location?

The man is being evaluated before the date even starts. I live in New York City. Transportation and convenience are everything. Your date should be considerate where you live and choose a spot close to you. Immediate red flag if he chooses a place right next to his apartment. It means he’s either too lazy to look for new places outside of his neighborhood, or he’s hoping to...Continue Reading